Mindset Coach &
Relationship Expert

ANY relationship, ANY life goal, I'm your gal!

Mindset Breakthrough is all about achieving the goals and relationships that you want. It’s about undoing negative thoughtbehavioural and emotional patterns in your personal and professional life.  It’s an education in becoming so in-tune with yourself that you always know what your next move should be. 

Latest Blogs

I am confident, I am a mess, I am loved
So for those of you who don’t know – I am a really strong person. I have been through some[...]
How to create a connection with him [Transcript]
Straight away,ask him the questions no one else doestalk about what his dreams are, not just where he wants to[...]
The challenge of asking and receiving in relationships
A lot of us are taught from a young age that we have to work for the things we want,[...]
2 Reasons you haven’t found the one [transcript]
Facebook Live transcript. Original video here: https://www.facebook.com/DATElikeaDIVA/videos/329426070906808/ [Start] Hi guys, Tori here, Mindset Coach and Relationship Expert. So I want to[...]
“No man will ever be good enough for my daughter.”
I heard a father today tell his very young daughter that no man will ever be good enough for her.[...]
Why we should love fear
Fear tends to get a mixed reception in the world today, with opinions largely depending on the circles in which[...]

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UK’s No 1 Motivational Speaker


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Talented, patient and unfazed by even the toughest of personalities.

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Tori Ufondu

I help men and women get mindset clarity, achieve their life goals & break old relationship patterns.

Give me the time and I will help you change your life.

I will show you how to ditch, old, tired & unhelpful ways of thinking.

Helping others to LIVE and LOVE the life of their dreams is my calling in life.

And I'm Really frikkin good at it.

Peace x

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